Archive for April, 2009

Please help Kai!

Saturday, April 18th, 2009

I am reposting this letter asking for help for this beautiful little boy.  This originally came from the Hudson River Park Mamas.  Please let as many people as you can know about this!

Kai Anderson has a rare form of Leukemia
He is not even five years old
To cure it, he needs a bone marrow transplant


Hope For Kai
Bone Marrow Donor Drive

Saturday, May 2nd
9:00 am – 5:00 pm

Montessori School of Manhattan
53 Beach St.
(Between Hudson and Greenwich)
For more info call: (212)-334-0400

Just days ago Kai had symptoms that his parents thought might be the flu, or even just a cold. Now he is in the hospital, diagnosed with a rare form of leukemia (Philadelphia Chromosome-Positive Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia), being treated with a cocktail of seven chemotherapy drugs. Only, for this acute, high-risk form of leukemia, chemo is rarely enough. Kai’s best hope lies in a bone marrow transplant.

That’s where you come in.

The Anderson family absolutely need your prayers, kind words, home-cooked meals, practical assistance and generous donations for the enormous medical costs ahead (at More than you can know. You see, last year, Kai’s dad and special buddy, David, was diagnosed with a type of cancer (also rare and complicated) called Mantle Cell Lymphoma. That’s right. Two cancers in one small family. Kai’s parents are operating day-to-day with unimaginable levels of stress and heartbreak.

But right now what they need, more than anything, is a way to save Kai’s life.

Thanks to amazing refinements in medical technology, a miracle may yet be possible. But it will take all of us.

Bone marrow transplant is probably very different from what it was the last time you heard about it. Getting tested for compatibility takes only seconds. Dab a swab on the inside of your cheek and register with the national bone-marrow registry. If the marrow is a match, donors are asked to undergo one of two minor, non-invasive outpatient procedures that extract some of your healthy stem cells to replace a patient’s unhealthy cells. It is that simple to give someone a second chance at life.

Astonishingly, despite these advancements, every year thousands of patients in desperate need of bone marrow transplants go without, due to a lack of available compatible matches. Less than 20% ever get the transplant that may be their last chance for survival. The technology is there; it’s the donors who are not. That’s not only shameful, it’s
short-sighted. Because this is something that can happen to any of us, to any of our children.

If you can’t attend the bone marrow drive above, please visit for a free kit you can use at home. Then help spread the word by forwarding this e-mail to everyone who may be able to help.

Kai and Birgit Anderson have been part of the Hudson River Park Mothers Group from the beginning. He is her firstborn, the one who made her a mother.  And from the beginning, the Hudson River Park Mothers Group’s mission has been to create a caring community for families.  The only assurance we can offer our children, and the most valuable lesson we can teach them, is that while bad things in life can’t be prevented, their load can be shared. Please do what you can to help us share this one.

Who knows?

The thing that could happen to any of us may just be cured by one of us.

Thank you!

The Hudson River Park Mothers Group

teaching your kids about boundaries and bad touches

Monday, April 6th, 2009


I recognize that as parents one of the last things we ever want to think about when it comes to our children is someone touching them inappropriately, or worse.  As a former counselor in a program for children and teen sexual abuse survivors, I remember the horror well.  Jill Starishevsky, a mother and former prosecutor for victims of child abuse and sex crimes has published a children’s book, “My Body Belongs to Me” that allows us parents to have an age-appropriate conversation with our children about their bodies, boundaries and what to do when someone violates them (heaven forbid) – tell!  In my experience, this is one of those subjects that we don’t want to think about, which means we often avoid talking about it and giving our children a clear message that this is wrong and should not be kept a secret.  If ever there was a must-have book for our children, this would seem to be it.  It is written for youngsters ages 3-10.

Pattie Fitzgerald, founder of Safely Ever After, a safety program for parents and kids, proclaims, “I have been teaching child safety classes for nearly ten years, and this is the first children’s book I’ve seen that really addresses the issues in a way that kids can understand and that doesn’t seem scary or heavy-handed.”

The end of pap smears?

Monday, April 6th, 2009

Today’s New York Times shared a remarkable study reported in the New England Journal of Medicine showing that DNA tests outperform pap smears in the identification of cancerous cells.  On top of that, the DNA test is considered reliable for years and has results within hours. This could obsolete the pap smear test altogether.

This research was funded by the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation, as was the drug company who has created a $5 test – a price that would only go down with demand and means the possibility for greater prevention in third world countries where preventive medicine is accessed less frequently.  This is exciting news in women’s health!